In fact the world is women based. Men are minions before them. The women nurture and protect not only virtues but human values too. Moreover I am well-aware of some black sheep among women also. The anti-women fervor found in selfish mother-is-laws, wayward wives, sex-pervert lasses, and libertine madams not fit for healthy social fabric is deplorable. Such wantonness is labelled as “Freedom of the fair sex” by the modern women emancipation enthusiasts but it is not the whole truth. Women’s emancipation will be complete and perfect only if the women are successful in reining in the men’s psyche. They have this Midas touch. Only they have to recognize this power they possess.
In my opinion men are too small before the women even though the former claim to be superior to women by virtue of the prevailing practice of men’s domination in the society. The fact is whatever decency the men possess is only due to women. It is the woman (mother) who inculcates such sanskars in their clean-slated minds during childhood which makes them civilized thus guiding them throughout their lives. But alas! The modernists have been losing those sanskars too fast because their mothers are very busy in their women-emancipation drives thus failing and forgetting to inculcate values/virtues in their children leading to escalation in crimes against women day by day. On other hand the modern woman has lost further faith in their opposite sex due to falling standards of virtues. Men urgently need to introspect on this trend.
In spite of such horrible situations, how women can initiate changes in the society to make it a better place is another moot point. They are change makers. If they join hands to transform the society, they are sure to revolutionize it. The men’s world will look to be too small if the women join hands and unite to rein in their lasciviousness.
Even during this continuing war for existence or say identity, the women should not forget the truth that man without woman and the woman without man are incomplete. In spite of present incongruities both feel a vacuum in their lives. Agree women are not sex-dolls. But starved of male-female-touch throughout life too is not psychologically healthy. The truth is that both ultimately find gratifying solace in the arms of each other. It restores faith of women in men and vice versa; and both feel grateful to each other. But alas! This healthy attitude among men is not growing at the desired pace. That is why men still fail to infuse that faith in their counterparts which the latter expect.
If it could happen sooner the better.